Good news: with age of pleasure it becomes only more! And that’s not all.
Orgasms are just as much a part of women’s health (yes, it’s health!), As is the cleaning of teeth after eating. Only pleasure in the first case is much greater. Although there was in history such a unique woman who received the strongest orgasm during washing. We found out such facts about orgasm, of which you could not even think. And some of them are very instructive.
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1. Orgasm can relieve pain
There is evidence that orgasm can relieve all kinds of pain, including pain in arthritis, after surgery and even during labor. This is due to the release during the orgasm of oxytocin, which provides relaxation and positive emotions. And although the anesthetic effect usually lasts only 8-10 minutes, the latest research assures that even just thoughts about sex help relieve pain.
2. Condom use does not affect the quality of orgasm
Women can experience orgasm with both a condom and without it. All the talk that a condom reduces sensations and pleasures is a myth. In fact, condoms allow a couple to prolong the time they have sex. If your guy resists and does not use a condom, arguing this with a lack of sensations, try first manual stimulation before intercourse. This will help to strengthen the sensations.
3. 30% of women have problems achieving orgasm
Yes, if you have problems achieving orgasm, you are not alone. According to statistics, one in three women experiences the same problems. And 80% of women can not reach only vaginal orgasm without stimulation of the clitoris. This is not a problem, but if you are concerned, get treatment. Female sexual dysfunction, which prevents the achievement of orgasm, is very often, according to some surveys, in 43%. Therefore, recently it has become the topic of numerous discussions and studies. You can help! Some people just have to do the testosterone level in their body. But dysfunction can be associated with diseases of the thyroid gland, depression, diabetes.
4. Point G can give incredible sensations
Have you already found your point G? Search! Her “discovered” by Ernst Grafenberg, MD, a German gynecologist, in the 1950s. And sexologists have long praised this area, which is believed to contain a large number of nerve endings, calling it a kind of key that helps women experience incredible emotions. True, this issue is still controversial. Recently, English scientists have denied the existence of point G after the Italian researchers found it on ultrasound and published their findings in the journal on sexual medicine.
5. With age, orgasm improves
Of course, we can talk about the mass of things that happen with age. But the sex life can really improve – in particular, the quality and frequency of orgasms. With age, it is easier to reach it! Studies have shown that only 61% of women aged 18 to 24 years experienced orgasm during the last sexual intercourse. At the same time, for 30-year-olds this figure was 65%, while those who are over 40, and 70% at all. However, these studies did not reveal the reason for such a difference. But scientists have suggested that women become more experienced, more confident, so they get more sexual pleasure. Women note that sexual confidence is first and foremost affected by the trust and closeness of the partner.
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6. Women who practice different types of sex are more likely to experience orgasm
If you have problems achieving orgasm, try using different techniques too. For example, engage in both vaginal and oral sex.
7. Assessment of the appearance of the genital organs affects the quality of her orgasm
Yes, this is confirmed by research – a woman feels dependent on her ideas about the sexual organs and the quality of orgasm. The less she likes herself “there,” the worse her business with orgasm. But any gynecologist can vouch that every vagina looks different and there is not one single ideal template. As long as you do not have any pain, there are no secretions, ulcers, you do not feel discomfort, you can consider yourself normal and healthy! You can increase your orgasmic potential by simply increasing your confidence. Love yourself and your body! There is another trick: get out the mirror and look. Know yourself and become more confident in yourself.
8. The ratio of orgasms in partners does not match
It is true that only a small number of men have problems with orgasm. This is more a rarity than a rule. Unlike women. However, a significant percentage of women orgasm simulate, but the partner does not even know about it. Studies show that while 85% of men think that their partner experienced orgasm, only 64% of women confirm it.
It is difficult to achieve equality of orgasms. It is believed that men are more orgasmic predisposed. But if you want to not simulate, but really experience orgasm, study together with your partner your body and find on it your points of sexual pleasure. However, and argue that sex without orgasm is bad and that every sexual act must end with orgasm – wrong. Just have fun!
9. You can experience orgasm without even taking off your clothes
Oh yes, we’ve all heard of women who can experience orgasm during a normal ride on a train, on a treadmill, or on a massage session. These are quite real phenomena. Why is this happening? The cause of spontaneous orgasms during certain activities is associated with an increase in blood flow to the genitals and vibrations or contacts with the clitoris. Increased blood flow and general relaxation during massage can also lead to orgasm.
10. A woman needs more time to reach orgasm than a man
This is true, and this is normal. According to statistics, most women require at least 20 minutes of different sexual activity to achieve orgasm. If your partner often reaches orgasm first, not leading you to the finals, then there are ways to help him and slow down the pleasure. Sometimes mental exercises can work, and sometimes physical actions – if necessary, you can press on the base around the penis and hold back the impulse.